Hmmmmmmmmmmmm I always heard bad things too, going to go check it out this weekend.
My In-laws are trying to convince us to move out there and they will buy a house for us. My father-in-law recently retired and my mother-in-law is looking to do the same soon. Their plan is to each sale their homes in LA county (divorced but friends), and with their equity and stocks buy each of them a home and one for each of their 3 kids. Homes built in 2008, so of course the look Amazing. They want the family close and Mortgage free, which of course anyone would jump on that deal, except for me. hahahahah. I look at, hmmm do I want to live there? I know Im struggling with my mortgage now, but I'm going through a Mod that should lower my payments soon. Am I going to feel like I'm always going to owe her parents? They are great people and I get along great with them and her 2 older brothers. Some people look at my like I'm nuts for not saying YES right away!. I can see how her brothers are excited for it, they dont currently own or have a set Job/Career location. Do I want to be 40miles from work and be mortgage free in a house 2x as big as my current one? or stay in my 1400sqft home, struggle with payments for now until my career takes off and be 5miles from work and in a lil town I've grown to love (Upland). Decisions Decisions! and they want me to decide like NOW!!! ahhhhhhhhhhh !!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry for the rambling, needed to vent.